Why toxic people come into our lives...

Complainers, victims & venters are attracted to others generating the SAME vibrations they are. They feel compelled to seek out others who will allow them to stay within those destructive vibrations for as long as they can manage to until they are forced out of their bad mood by chance happenstances that rarely arrive. 

So if you've attracted into your life a friend, partner, lover or whatever; who complains or vents a lot, it's not their issues you should be concerned with. 

Simple OBSERVATION is all that's required to see this is true. 

Just observe what happens most often when these individuals come to you. 

And when they come, just allow them to start any conversations or interactions in whatever ways come naturally to them.

However they feel naturally inclinded to interact with you, is an indication of where you are in your own vibrations.

If, without your input, they seem to talk about many lovely things, then that's the vibration you are in also. And if this is the case, you really are silly for thinking to read thispost right now 😆

Alternatively, if when they come to you, they most often is complain, vent, or spin other yarns of victimhood; it becomes very clear that YOU have a problem.

You are vibrating in alignment with the same energies you're attracting. Vibrations which are controlled by the thought-stories you're allowing to swirl around in your head. When you allow those swirling stories to narrate your victimhood, dis ease, dis comfort, or lack; the same energy is vibrated right back at you in the form of other people who can sense and are naturally attracted to you disaligment.

It's a simple equation really:

When you're feeling like a victim, you attract others who feel like victims.

When you're feeling like other people or circumstances are horrible and unfair, you attract people to you who are horrible and unfair, and think everyone else is horrible and unfair; including you.

When you allow yourself to give in to your trained habit of feeling obligated to be a "good listener" to anyone 'in need', you'll feel like you're being stepped on by ppl who can't ever seem to stop complaining about feeling stepped on, while they're in the process of walking right over you.

Sometimes these thought-stories can get so much momentum going, that you start feeling like you're not even getting enough freedom to really feel like the unpowerful victim you know you are 😘

I'm sure you get it.

You get what you give, receive only what you allow & experience only that which you practice most often.

Why do we experience stress, pain, and strife?

Contrast, in form like stress, pain, strife, and other forms of dis function, is not an accident of the universe that just happens to you or to 'the unfortunate'. 

It's a very specific process designed by the cosmos with delicate precision, to perform a very important function: showing you what you don't want, so you learn to understand what you DO want.

You can't manifest what you truly desire until you know what you do want, and how to redirect your focus to it every time you see more things you don't want.

Problem is, you often get stuck in the first step: seeing and thinking about what you don't want.

And when you stay there, you manifest more if what you don't want.

You are THAT powerful.

You manifest everything you think about. You call it with your own vibration.

If that vibration is "I don't want this, I don't like this, I don't have what I want, I can't have what I want, I'm broken.", the universe brings you more of that contrast because the universe knows you are a deliberate creator, and it doesn't question what you ask for. It just brings you all the vibrational matches to your thoughts.

This is why success in any form, will not drop into anyone's lap regardless of their vibration.
You have to be a genuine place of allowing in order to get into a place of receiving, where things do seem to just drop into our laps, because that's the only time you're sending out the signl to the universe that that is what you really want.

And once you get into that place, just as with the manifestation which confirm situations which match your negative thoughts when you have them, the universe will conspire to bring you what you're giving it: JOY.

Stress Cannot Be "Treated" By Doctors, But It Can Be Overcome By YOU

I was browsing recent health news to see what sort of weird sickness the kids are passing around the schools lately, when I came across a headline about a national mental health survey that included some feedback from a handful of Seattlites who reported their physical health to be top notch, while reporting that their mental health was bottom barrel because of one big nasty culprit - STRESS.

It's a nasty word, I know it, you know it, let's get over it.

Stress is a natural and often times healthy part of our lives until we get so wrapped up in it that we developed self defeating habits and patterns that cause our lives to fall apart. Though even when you find yourself on the edge of your reality, you can always come back and you can always get rid of the negative stress. Though the only way you can do that is if you know you have that ability, which many people simply are not aware of.

And sadly, allopathic medicine long ago forgot what it was like to train doctors with enough patience and compassion to actually sit and get to know their patients and do things like, I don't know... TALK about more than just blood draws, pee filled cups and test results.

And it certainly doesn't look like the world of physical medicine is going to include our source energy or our minds in their health practices any time soon. Eventually, I'm sure they will get the hang of it, but until then, what are stressed out Seattle urbanites and their fellow Americans supposed to do? If you can't talk to your doctor about your stress, who the hell can you talk to?

I know I'm biased, though there is no reason not to consider a coach. An option which results in many amazing benefits such as:

- Not having someone who constantly tries to diagnose you with an illness, disorder or some other label that suggests there's something wrong with you.

- Learning about stress management, stress triggers and stress-busting NLP anchors, which can help you set up an infinitely reoccurring cycle of joy in your life. And you can trust me when I say that is much more pleasurable than stress.

- Having a non-judgmental someone available who you trust and who will not shy away from your questions about stress in your life.

And I can tell you from my own experiences with be coached, that stress is not a condition and does not require a cure. In fact, the fact that you are stressed out or have been majorly stressed out lately, shows just how perfectly human you actually are.

Feel free to call or text me anytime for a free session - 206 486 4625


Enrich a Young Boy's Life

If you've ever felt the urge to give back to the world in a way that truly matters, now is the time to do it - check out the courageous campaign that has been put together to help change a young 9 year old Congo boys life forever. 

Badibanga Yusef was horribly injured in an accident when he was younger, that left him scarred for life and his playmate dead. Badibanga is now struggling to live as normal a life as he can without one arm and while carrying terrible scars on his face. Inside, Badibanga is an amazing 9 year old, like any other and he dreams more than anything of being "normal", something many of us take for granted.

Help him now, by contributing to his campaign like I have, so that he can get the last of his final surgeries that will empower him to take on life with a new passion.

Badibanga's Campaign: Learning to Smile

The Inspiration of Youth

As if I were reading into the middle of a thrilling drama book, I found myself in contact with a group of young adults from the big apple itself - New York City, with big dreams and the passion to see that they come true.

The story of how I meet them and came to write this blog, isn't nearly as fascinating as the true epoch that these kids are getting ready to embark - even Homer would have some serious work to do to keep up with all the obstacles, challenges and battles that these four film school grads are up against.

You should really see it for yourself, as they have done a fantastic job of creating and promoting their crowdfunding ccampaign on indiegog, which I am very proud of them for doing well before they met me and my masterminding ways.

Now that they have met me, I fully intend on doing whatever I can to find a mutually beneficial way for you to help them journey across the globe and find their places in this world.

Check out the campaign here: Sanskrit the Documentary You won't be sorry you do it!